As I've mentioned I'm going to be using this part of my blog to air some thoughts and views on things happening in my life as I feel writing things down or "documenting" things can actually help with problems, worries and stresses.
To cut a long story short I'm part of a family of 4...my dad my mum me and my little brother (who's nearly 25 so not so little any more) and my mum unfortunately suffers from a condition called MS (multiple sclerosis) and has done for the past 15 years or so, and during these years I've watched and experienced my family go through so many different problems and worries.
My dad and my brother deal with depression and it's hard to see! My dad is the most amazing bloke I know and I'm not just saying that because he's my dad but the fact he has given everything up in his life to look after my mum! Sadly...he has turned to drink to help him cope and basically get through the day.
The fact my mum is seriously unwell has affected my brother in a massive way also and it's even harder to see him upset when he is so young still!
I often feel bad and even guilty because I'm not officially "depressed" or on any medication but I do not want to be dependant on tablets to make my day seem better...so as the title of this post suggests...I remember the little things!
As sad as it may seem to who ever reads this but I'm actually getting rather excited about the new iPhone cover I ordered turning up in the next few days lol
Monday, 25 February 2013
the first of many....lets start with plenty of fish
Well...it took a while for me to get into this blogging thing...but I'm here!
I'm going to have a number of different blogs for my different thoughts, ideas and rants....this blog page will have my day to day thoughts...just some where I can vent in a general way.
Tonight I'm going to start with a bit of rant...sorry lol
I'm on the dating website Plenty of fish, have been for about 6 months now, met a couple of people, some have been nice....and others....well....not so nice! but thats life...not everyone you meet is nice...but the thing I want to talk about is how it feels like there are double standards on dating sites and that girls seem to have an unfair percentage of the "power"
now as i've discovered and learned from the girls I've spoken to...there seems to be a lot of guys on these sites that think it's cool to send pictures of their "lil fellas" as a way of introduction...obviously those of us that are normal will understand this is not the way to speak to girls and we can appreciate it must be incredibly annoying for girls to receive these sort of messages!....however it does seem a tad stupid that there are a huge amount of girls profiles that have pictures of them selves in certain positions, showing off certain body parts and generally have them selves "on show"...yet they still complain they attract the wrong kind of guy? what the hell? c'mon!!!!! if you get your breasts out on a dating site for all and sundry to view...you have to expect to receive messages from perverts lol
I'm going to have a number of different blogs for my different thoughts, ideas and rants....this blog page will have my day to day thoughts...just some where I can vent in a general way.
Tonight I'm going to start with a bit of rant...sorry lol
I'm on the dating website Plenty of fish, have been for about 6 months now, met a couple of people, some have been nice....and others....well....not so nice! but thats life...not everyone you meet is nice...but the thing I want to talk about is how it feels like there are double standards on dating sites and that girls seem to have an unfair percentage of the "power"
now as i've discovered and learned from the girls I've spoken to...there seems to be a lot of guys on these sites that think it's cool to send pictures of their "lil fellas" as a way of introduction...obviously those of us that are normal will understand this is not the way to speak to girls and we can appreciate it must be incredibly annoying for girls to receive these sort of messages!....however it does seem a tad stupid that there are a huge amount of girls profiles that have pictures of them selves in certain positions, showing off certain body parts and generally have them selves "on show"...yet they still complain they attract the wrong kind of guy? what the hell? c'mon!!!!! if you get your breasts out on a dating site for all and sundry to view...you have to expect to receive messages from perverts lol
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